so I had this on my myspace for the longest time. I'm posting it here to start a discussion because i'm bored.

I had an interesting english class which really made me start to think about things involving people, the way they live and the way society is lead to believe in, specifically Barberton High School.

Today in my english class, one of the things that made my ears open as wide as they could was the fact that mainstream music was being dismissed as a bad thing. I'm going to use Panic at the Disco for my example. Panic at the Disco is mainstream and yes they do have a teen following that has sparked many different trends but at the end of they day, its music and there is someone out there who is hearing one of their songs for the first time ever. I'm not going to deny it. I love Panic at the Disco. I don't love them for some of the reasons that it seems a lot of people love them for. I love them for the lyrics. To me, thats what is the most important thing about the lyrics. Lyrics are poems. It doesn't matter if its rock, if its rap, or if its country. At some point those lyrics were just words without a melody. I understand that people are frustrated with mainstream but honestly if you look at mainstream in a different perspective, its not bad. I listen to mainstream music but I also listen to independent music too. I love listening to artists who produce their own music and promote it themselves without the help of MTV but at the same time I'm not going to quit listening to the radio or watching Fuse just because "its mainstream".

Independent music is becomming mainstream. It's so trendy to hate mainstream right now. Everyone is suddenly turning to independent artists. So technically there really isn't an independent musid industry anymore is there.

I'm not going to lie to anyone. I listen to EVERY type of music out there from my sister's orchestra to the new panic at the disco cd to kanye west to rascall flatts. I really don't care what genre it is or what's currently popular. I listen to it because it inspires me. It gives me emotions. It makes me think about the lyrics and it makes me relate them to a time in my life. Music is more than just fancy beats or melodies played through good sound system. Music is lyrics. Music is emotions. Music is life.



Myspace.

These days it seems almost everyone has a myspace and it also seems that everyone has similar pictures. Even more, since the creation of myspace, there's this group of girls that look exactly alike. Everyone knows the "scene queens" and the wannabe "scene queens" They have the same hair, the same clothes, the same tattoos. They do all this stuff to get attention on myspace. They talk about how they know guys in bands and hang out with them all the time and they talk about how wild the parties they go to are. The talk about their "so called clothing line" and how they are models and even some of them go as far to call themselves artists and photographers.

I'm not going to lie. I have short layers in my hair that I tease up every day. I wear make-up because I like to. I take pictures because pictures help keep memories from fading away. I wear skinny jeans, flats and band tees not because " I think i'm sooooo unique" because i like my style. I'm not going to change because my style has become mainstream. I have a myspace obviously. I discovered myspace through a Good Charlotte messageboard back in the 6th grade. I've had once ever since. I really don't care what people think about it. Say what you want. Because of myspace I've heard some really amazing music and made some really amazing friendships. I don't use my myspace to go around announcing that I'm selling prints of myself to kids who worship me because I know how to use the contrast button on photoshop. Thats not art and its sad that girls on myspace are becomming famous for taking a photoshopped picture and selling to millions of people. There's no reason for that and honestly its quite creepy. But people are going to buy it because they are insecure with themselves and want to see what society is considering A) pretty and B) mainstream.

Anyone who knows me knows that I am not closed off to just one group of people. My friends are so varied you wouldn't even know how to begin to catagorize it. Take my best friend for example, She is someone you'd list the scholastic catagory. She's super intelligent and takes classes that challenge her knowledge. She doesn't dress to make herself fit in a "clique". When you see us together you see her and then you look at me and see my skinny jeans, flats, eyeliner, hair and then you go "Those two are best friends?" We may be completely opposite but inside we both think almost identically. I dress the way I do because I like it. I don't do it so I can get new friends on myspace. I don't dress the way I do to get friends. I don't do anything for other people. I do things for myself. I do things for me.

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1. You hear music on the radio and you start marking time.

2. You're walking behind someone and you're in step with them.

3. You try to guess the tempo of your favorite song.

4. All your friends are in band.

5. You don't mind changing clothes on the bus (see below).

6. You know how to change on the bus without revealing anything.

7. People ask you about your social life and you say "Oh you mean my flute?"

8. You've had a "trombone-ectomy" (shudder).

9. You practice your instrument more than you talk to your dog.

10. Being mauled by a drum is a normal part of life.

11. "Armed guard" means a girl with a pole, not a guy with a gun.

12. You remember sharps and flats more easily than you remember the name of the president.

13. You've named your instrument.

14. You see your section more than you see your family.

15. Everyone wants to kill the other football team...and you want to kill the other band.

16. You have dreams about selling band candy.

17. You accidentally call your band director "Dad".

18. Reeds taste good.

19. You subconsciously start practicing with a pencil.

20. You roll step through the cafeteria so you don't spill your food.

21. You're alone and you suffocate because no one's telling you to breathe.

22. The band room is your second home. It is your home if you've got it bad.

23. You think a national monument should be built honoring John Philip Sousa. Hell, they should just chip off one of those president heads and put it there.

24. You've actually been to band camp and consider it the highlight of your summer.

25. You recite the alphabet A through G then start back at A again.

26. Someone could empty their spit valve on your shoe and you wouldn't care.

27. Spit rags/swabbers don't gross you out (see above).

28. You carry cork grease in your pocket.

29. You know what a shako is and insist on calling them that, threatening to kick anyone who dares to call them 'hats'.

30. 9/2 time scares the b'jeezus out of you, while dying a slow painful death in a pit of snakes doesn't.

31. Your philosophy is: "If you don't have your mouthpiece then what the heck is that noise coming out of your mouth?"

32. You and your pals have memorized the entire repertoire for the year and can play your respective parts together...on kazoos.

33. You hear a song on the radio and think: "Hey, this'd make a good pep band song."

34. You don't describe people by going "She's got brown hair, dark eyes, kind of tall..", but go "She's an alto sax."

35. Your conductor is your hero.

36. You have a designated section in your closet dubbed "for concert attire".

37. You have a harness/neck strap tan line.

38. Pep band is the highlight of your week.

39. You go around humming the last song you practiced, even if it's Bb major scale.

40. A random person could punch you in the face and you wouldn't respond, but you'll fight to the death over who in your section gets to play the solo.

41. Someone yells out "Hey Tuba boy!" and you respond.

42. Your biggest crush was/is your drum major.

43. You go to parades that you are not in and make sure lines are straight, horn angles are parallel, and everyone is in step.

44. You listen to the classical station and can name off songs that you remember playing in band.

45. You always start off on the left foot.

46. You find it complicated to get in step with your reflection.

47. You've seen "Mr.Holland's Opus" 26 times.

48. Everybody in band fights like they're family.

49. When walking down the hall you are in step with your friends. If someone is not, they fall behind or do a little foot shuffle to get in step.

50. You have dents in your furniture from hitting it with drumsticks or spit stains from emptying your valve.

51. You know how to play 10 popular-stand tunes, but know the words to none of them.

52. You point out key changes and dynamics when you listen to the radio.

53. You can strip out of your uniform in less than a minute WITHOUT getting it on the floor in order to use the bathroom.

54. You can carry four different food products at a time and eat them while standing with your instrument on moving bleachers in the rain and not drop any crumbs on your pep band jersey.

55. Having people help dress and undress you isn't even remotely sexually stimulating.

56. You know how to walk on mud without slipping.

57. You miss class to march in a parade.

58. You point out instruments from the music in cartoons.

59. You're still humming band music from three years ago.

60. You start screaming "LEFT! LEFT! LEFT!" to the people that walk in front of you on your way to class.

61. You've never had to pay to get into a football/basketball game.

62. Your feet are together, your stomach is in, your shoulders are back, your head is up, and your eyes are "with pride." 24/7.

63. You've been wittness to a fallen xylophone, bells, chimes, or marimba.

64. Your English teacher is discussing banned bookes and you think - "band books?"

65. You sit at what is known by all as the "Band Table" in the cafeteria.

66. You pile as many band people as you can in one car to go and see "Final Fantasy".

67. You tell people in the movie theater they're humming the "Final Fantasy" tune out of key.

68. You either hate orchestra or are incredibly envious of it.

69. You never go anywhere without a deck of cards (see below).

70. Your deck of cards have been used to such a degree that they've been ripped and taped, have dog eared corners, are an odd pinkish tinge, can no longer fit into their box, and people ask if they'll contract chlamidya from them. Amazingly though, you still have all 52.

71. Instead of doing the "L = left" thing with your hands, you take one step forward to figure out which is right and which is left.

72. You'll clean up the uniform room for a free soda.

73. You're feeling sick at school, but you don't go home until after band.

74. Your friends (uh... friend) who aren't in band hang out in the band room before class starts.

75. You've never ever sat in your class section at a pep rally because you're playing.

76. You still and always will find "Sax-a-ma-PHONE!" entertaining.

77. You find yourself drawing characters in uniforms with instruments.

78. You're in band, but you don 't play an instrument (see below).

79. You like band so much but you don't know how to play an instrument, so you join and become a runner for the band.

80. Normal people bet on horse racing, you bet on the DCI Championship.

81. People you haven't seen since elementary school go up to you and say "Hey, you're that one clarinet girl!"

82. In the hallway at school, someone drops a pencil and you holler "STICK!!!"

83. Someone starts clapping and you get nervous.

84. If your dog called you to attention you wouldn't faint out of surprise until the at-ease.

85. Friends tell you to "pee clear."

86. If you actually get to watch a parade in the off-season, you get the urge to say things like "Second rank, left file, watch the intervals!"

87. You name the city and the show, your friends know exactly when you're talking about.

88. Immediate respect for any drum major.

89. "Beef" has nothing to do with cows.

90. (If you tour) You have a refined ability to walk down an aisle on the edges of bus seats.

91. (See above) You fight over who gets to sleep on the floor.

92. You go into spasms if you aren't in the same room as your instrument for more than two hours.

93. Someone asks you who your favorite band is and you say"High school or college? 4A or 5A school? DCI or what?"

94. Wal-Mart is having a sale on lawn ornaments and you think "Wow, they're selling pit members now?"

95. You dent a tuba and blame it on flag line.

96. When you do squatt and go's to get to a class you are late for.

97. You go to other football games to watch the other band.

98. You play the fight songs for FUN!

99. You listen to band demo CDs in your car.

100. Your CDs consist of mainly orchestral/band music.


sadly. I am guilty of most of these lol

Currently organizing my pictures into my photobucket.
Shall I do a photo time line from freshman year till now?
lol at me asking this when no one comments this journal.

lol my life.

dnw slutty band cheerleaders trying to be friends with me.

updates coming soon

I've been to hell and back. I spill shit, trip and embarass myself. I just can't flutter my eyes and get the boy. At times my life is so messed up I wonder if I can really go on. I've been through more shit than the girls on TV. Nobody's perfect. I've been lied to, cheated on and I've had my heart stolen. I've fucked up, fucked up people and been fucked up. But every hit, every breath and every chance was real. Life is real and i'm living it wrong every day. I'm fucking up royally and doing things the opposite. But do I regret one thing? Never, because at one point I did what I wanted and I got my satisfaction. My life is mine and no stupid bitches or immature boys can fuck it up for me. I'm the real deal. I'd like to see you try and break me.

I've been MIA on the scene for awhile. Don't bother sending out the detectives...I'm back.

( Hi I'm the girl of your dreams. I heard you were looking for me... )

I want endless summer
hello california